Trying to fully understand bondage
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Date: 20th May 2008
I understand how this can be very stimulating for the one tied up, and I guess there's equal stimulation for the dominant --- but -- after a few minutes of being uncoonfortable and stimulated -- what then?
I think I would want to be quickly untied and have wild sex with the dominant, otherwise what is the fun? I would not like to be like that after the stimulation dies. I wouldn't mind being on my BACK and exposed where the dominant woman would "take advantage" and avail herself of the "flag at Iwo Jima" but without sex afterward I could imagine the untying (or being freed) could be anticlimactic or even boring.
Could you elaborate... it looks like fun if there's sex for a reward. But otherwise I don't get it.
I think I would want to be quickly untied and have wild sex with the dominant, otherwise what is the fun? I would not like to be like that after the stimulation dies. I wouldn't mind being on my BACK and exposed where the dominant woman would "take advantage" and avail herself of the "flag at Iwo Jima" but without sex afterward I could imagine the untying (or being freed) could be anticlimactic or even boring.
Could you elaborate... it looks like fun if there's sex for a reward. But otherwise I don't get it.
Re: hog tied
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Date: 20th May 2008
Take it you've never been to a Mistress
For me it's that feeling of being in bondage and helpless.
The Mistress doing whatever she pleases with you, either pain or pleasure.
Believe me, some of the things they do can really arrouse you.
But it's just knowing you have to take it until they release you.
You might not understand, but it works for me.
For me it's that feeling of being in bondage and helpless.
The Mistress doing whatever she pleases with you, either pain or pleasure.
Believe me, some of the things they do can really arrouse you.
But it's just knowing you have to take it until they release you.
You might not understand, but it works for me.
Andy, when I was a kid...
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Date: 21st May 2008
I was aroused by seeing boots as a 4 year old and one time they bought me some cowboy boots and because I knew they aroused me I refused to ever wear them because I was embarassed that my weenie got hard and I couldn't tell them that. I would get aroused reading cowboy comic strips, seeing cowboy movies and even moreso, the Blackhawk comics! I would get in a sweat even seeing grown men or kids wearing riding boots and I wanted to have them so much. Finally at about age 18, I braved going to a riding store and acted as though I was a rider and I bought my first pair of Colt-Cromwell boots. I only wore them privately in my home, fearful of being stared at or kidded.
But in early teens I would fantasize about being tied up in a bed while being "forced" to wear riding boots and be at the mercy of incredibly beautiful women who were prone to take advantage of me (when I was up to it). The thought of being tied up was exciting but I did expect the final result to be enjoyable intercourse.
(This is the first time I put this into words) So I can understand the sexual thrills of being at the mercy of (only) beautiful women (not ugly ones) and especially if they were well booted in English boots or plain knee-high western ones.
I guess this is a thrill I'll never have, except in my mind... but that's better than nothing. At least I enjoy my own boots.
But in early teens I would fantasize about being tied up in a bed while being "forced" to wear riding boots and be at the mercy of incredibly beautiful women who were prone to take advantage of me (when I was up to it). The thought of being tied up was exciting but I did expect the final result to be enjoyable intercourse.
(This is the first time I put this into words) So I can understand the sexual thrills of being at the mercy of (only) beautiful women (not ugly ones) and especially if they were well booted in English boots or plain knee-high western ones.
I guess this is a thrill I'll never have, except in my mind... but that's better than nothing. At least I enjoy my own boots.
Re: hog tied
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Date: 21st May 2008
I used to be the same in that i had thoughts in my mind.
But you get to a point in life where you feel if you don't do it now you never will. Hence last september went for my first session with a Mistress(s).
Most of my sessions last year where with 2 Mistresses at a time.
First time i went asked if the main Mistress would wear her riding gear as i had seen photos of her on her website wearing it.
Dream come true.
Once you get over the fear factor, it's another world.
Talking to strangers about your dreams, and nobody looks at you strange.
Just wish i had a better paid job
But you get to a point in life where you feel if you don't do it now you never will. Hence last september went for my first session with a Mistress(s).
Most of my sessions last year where with 2 Mistresses at a time.
First time i went asked if the main Mistress would wear her riding gear as i had seen photos of her on her website wearing it.
Dream come true.
Once you get over the fear factor, it's another world.
Talking to strangers about your dreams, and nobody looks at you strange.
Just wish i had a better paid job
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