Sweet leather, hugs and kisses

Hello, I'm your worst nightmare...if you are married.

I'm going to give you a nickel's worth of free advice.

If you are enjoying this site, and let it go at that-just the site, good for you.
But if you must take it further, if you start joining dating groups and trying to meet these people STOP! Stop now, for your loved ones, for your children, for your good-standing in society.

A certain member, my husband, of your group ended up emailing and attempting to meet a girl he met on this account (Nikki). Well, his wife, a trusting angel, me, just happened to stumble across the whole mess when he minimized his screen instead of closing it.

So, this previously staunch, upright, well-loved and trustworthy pillar of New England's society, my husband, is now standing on a pillar that doesn't really exist, and I'm the one keeping up the charade. My silence and understanding is the only veil between his daughter, his parents, and the ruin of his business in which he has worked so hard for 20+ years.

Y'see I knew about the porn, about this site but thought I'd let him have his fun - it looks like fun! - I love leather, I love boots too! I guess I'm partly to blame because maybe he would have never gotten into this mess if I'd told him I knew..

Oh well, anyway, with this discovery hanging over his head - and the papers and pictures safely tucked into my safety deposit box- we entered into an agreement, a pact for future understanding and communication... that was back at the beginning of Aug yet he's still at it!!!Last communication just a few hours ago where he's fluffing and puffing up another bimbo*sigh*

If you're single, go for it, but keep antibiotics on tap. Enjoy. If you are in a serious relationship or married, please just sign off and get out! Take your wife and kids to a Balloon festival or a country fair. Hold on to your loved ones, there are so many desperate, lonely single people out there, you may wake up one day to find you are one of them.

Thanks for the words of good advice, however us males are creatures easily lead by the temtations of certian 'wants' in life, 'wants' we ought to be open with, espicaly with our loved ones, but some times its easier to find and be open with those 'wants' by tapping words to a screen to someone who seems our perfect match to fill those 'wants'

I should know as I am one of these males that like your partner that has maybe pushed the limit of whats acceptable to our loved ones, a little bit to far. Can I stop, nope the urge is to strong, can i confide in my partner what i realy would love for her to be, nope, as i know its not within her, if only there was a easy answer.

BB

a sorede mess thats why i stesk to my saying im old im tieured and i dont dances on moor a fuwe thughts i cinde of gent a keck out of some of the giys her thay keep aecking for thing fome the sowposedtlly dome ridduers at leesthe i dont ack or lick in jepportty i dont punt it in the forme of a quesgen fursth pont if you hand whorne a ridding out feght wuntever yeres a go the sed eght me that might have mand all the defurents evrey giy her or ever cund be hand if thay just taeck car of the speshell need yes hes stuppeddy havennig a b s thing in tipping scruwenn and being ok wheth its one thing heme going all the way it over dame x these dome x that im singell iv whorck wheth to menny devorest giy on thack you and we giy shund be a bent pesed cus whiy is she not sighted up on the daght thing and i justh whondoor whene i wood run a curose one of these aefare thing intornent conpuewtuer one hers a boght and to thick a pare of boots ded it

Dear All

May I suggest that in reply to this initial message "g boots" ought to withdraw his ridiculous (as ever) remarks & understand that despite all his own problems that people do have real relationships & the message communicated is a serious one.

My reply to "toemanswife" - should she be bothered to look (in her case I would not) - is that this site is aimed at fun & CONSENTING ADULTS knowing full well what is on the site.

I feel sorry for you "toemanswife" for the problems which this has caused you - obviously this type of "fun" was not communicated to you by your partner.

In the meantime ALL, would you all realize the seriousness of posting here & "g boots" your STUPID REPLY will not be appreciated by anyone, least of all the lady involved in all of this. You ought to apologize in proper English - a lady has been offended by her husband's involvement - your remarks have not helped. PLEASE APOLOGIZE IN PROPER ENGLISH TO THE LADY INVOLVED & THE SITE. If you wish to continue in your babble so be it but this time you were totally out of order.

REGENT

be gland i dont haned right yued reelly have something to bich a boght yes i a oewpenneghted bastueer reelaeshn shipes i dont turey anny moor and i sell have all my stufe monny in the baeck and no curazes doing thing to me or poportty iv whurcked a rowned to menny devoces pepull to bad for the laddey thair cind of both full doing boring it her to a vaerry aedollt place dont lick dont reed it

bb:
..and now here am I on this site again, didn't mean to come back, but couldn't resist... Your words are kind and insightful and I thank you for your thoughts.

Regent: No worries, I don't understand what the other gentleman has written anyway.

And now I leave you all to it

g boots

I trust you understand the words "twat" & "idiot". I will not decend myself to attempt to swear at low life such as yourself!

the ladey dent get up sent so gent a deslrcke dechenaiery and go figer it out and go bich some plase ellues

Although tough to dicipher, I can say you're very disrespectful G boots - very disapointing considering the amount of flack I've taken in the past on here defending your right to post on here despite not having ever fully understood what it is you're trying to say. The honest truth is that I would have done what I normally do with your posts and not make the effort to work out what you were trying to say. If it wasn't for Regent's comment then I would have been none the wiser.

g boots you are a fucking idiot

For toemanswife: I just wanted to say 'Where two people fight - two people are to blame'! What did he mis in your relationship? Okay, males assume thereselves hunters, that hunt must be a thing not to forget. But most men get hungry in the streets but eat at home. So..what went wrong?
So, not to talk right what has done wrong, but just a simple question: Why does someone loose appetite for 'homecooking'?
As for 'G Boots': Don't know where you learned writing..or thinking.. or whatever, I agree with Sweet leather. If I were moderator here, you wouldn't get any chance posting here.
Frank

dont lick dot reed it cant reed thene dont the fornen pepull cquwmowitcate back and forth all the time and i dont core and no one biches a bowght it

ow dont lick my spelling go to the jupmphers feditshe sight i cant aeckses to thair forme so i cant pess enny one off thaire

Hello, me again,

First of all, sorry that I inadvertently gave G boots a rousting arena, I'm afraid to say that I am able, at last, to decifer his rebuttal communiques and that scares me not a little bit, ha ha.

Frank Raven, I like your reference to homecooking and assume you mean sex. I, indeed, have tried to analyze what happened. A point blank question put to him is answered with he "doesn't feel like it". Yep, for a few years now I've looked in the 'pots' tried to figure what 'soured the milk'. One possibility: I gained weight, didn't fit into my boots, I guess, so l lost 65 lbs. trimmed up, smoothed down and ... nothing, no response from my mate. I tried not to be so clingy, tried to get my own interests: I put in extra hours at work and saved for a 3 week tour of New Zealand, I ended up just touring with our daughter, as Toeman couldn't leave work (self employed). I thought absence might make the heart grow fonder. Nope! it made it go yonder instead. He cashed in an insurance policy and deposited it in a secret account, also had all the funds from his business go to a seperate and also undisclosed post office box. I'm the bookkeeper for his business, needless to say, without the checks coming in it was difficult to pay the bills, I ended up using money that I had saved for the NZ trip to try to keep our collective heads above water (I thought the clients were just not paying their bills). Months later I figured out what he had done. Now he keeps a percentage 'for taxes" but a little detective work has revealed that the money has gone to car rental and plane tickets to try and meet a female he met on this site, (wisely, she panicked and ran), also it was paying for fees on porn sites and dating services. Although, now things are different (I hope) and we have a pact. Since I found out I'm trying harder to understand.

But, y'know- and I am laughing now- here am I writing on this site again! I'm sure the last thing you guys want to read about is this household stuff.
And it's a really long message! Too long! but I think it's really great that some of you guys are relating your insights - and are being so chivalrous.

Here's something that may fit better. I went out and bought riding boots, long white socks also tight slim jeans and these have become my uniform. In the evening I'll stretch out my be-leathered, be-denimed leg to him and ask for help in getting the boots off. He obliges but only just. He drops the boot immediately and continues watching tv or typing on the computer. I just don't understand it all. I'm still working on trying to get him to pull the socks off. In a way I feel like I'm fishing; the boots are the lure and he's the fish - but I'm not getting any bites. It's kind of fun tho', as I mentioned in a previous note I love boots and leather. It makes me feel very sexy, mischievious and sassy, but the man is an absolute statue - he must be made of stone! (and not in the good way)

All this leather, boots and tension gets me going and with no outlet -wellllllll- I have to "do things" myself - guess what? He complains that I'm shaking the bed and he can't sleep!

Oh my! Can't believe I wrote and admitted all that! I'm a baaaaaaad girl I guess. But I'm off now. I couldn't sleep, didn't want to 'jiggle the bed' and wake him up and now I have spent the wee hours of the night with the computer (that never complains).

A

hi Toemans wife. Your old man must need his head testing if he has a willing wife to slim down, plan a surprise trip for him and go buy riding boots just to try and please him. He doesn't know how lucky he is, you would be very welcome round my house! Try to stay positive and happy and if you don't succeed you know you have a lot of admirers on this site.,

Rob..

Dear Toemanswife / A,
Just wanted you to know you have my deepest symphathy, for what it's worth. I kind of know what is happening in a household (and in the head) when things turn bad that way. But for everyone there seems to be a point of no return, when something is broken and even wonderglue doesn't work anymore. Believe me, I've been there! Maybe on a different level or in a different way.. But the world fell apart, like yours does.
Well, in the end it seems we're alone when we need company the most. In my Y-groups I meet a lot of lonely people, didn't know this crowded planet had so many. Until one becomes one too.

Frank

whell her i go lints see how much i cen pess pepull off that giy hes got a boode whife and doooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooe the rest of us wood be happy as hell and if i had a boot whife she cund punt a sattell on me and ride me and dow lots of things to me allitslly doooooooooe donset get the conseped geve soming get something in relashenshepes that whock thaires gevf and tack and doooooooooe tuck for hem sellfe and never gave back and vief got a gunt felley dooooooooooe haes rownt you off whill 99 of us whundoor whaires owhuer booted gulll furend and whife that why i got my saying wheck i reped off forom baebllon 5 im old im tiuerd and i dont dances no moor her we go bich bich gurip gurip

Hi to Toemanswife,

Every time I pop into this thread, its like sitting on the psychiatrists couch, trying to understand what is going on in my head and how its driven my relation ship to the edge, even though I managed to save it at the eleventh hour, I still find my self back in my old haunts getting deeper and deeper enthralled in what gives me a total buzz and of course back on that edge with my partner.

Unlike yourself Mrs Tmw, my partner has not changed her outlook on my particular fetish, even though I tried to explain it, but I know its never going to be the perfection I seem to crave for, so I guess that?s why I am here.

But????..what interests me now, is the fact your last letter has a definite change in its tone,,,,,,,,almost to the point of where you have become one of us now, looking for that friendship, sharing of something common, that two people find exciting. Maybe its just chatting among like minded people you enjoy, or perhaps flirting, or a release of sexual tension that your after???????..at least I think I can say to you now???..welcome to the club.

BB

I daresay you are right, I guess I'm in the club

A

Hi Toemans wife,

Well let me be the first to welcome you to the club, I just hope you find what you are looking for. I will be honest my membership is purely to be able to find that lady somewhere out there who shares the same fetish that I do, but like me has a partner who has no interest in making those special moments, extra special by the indulgement of something I find turns me to jelly at a ladies boots.

That however does not stop my love for my partner; I love her even more, even though I know me being on here upsets her and of course seems to make things worse???..what a vicious circle my life is?????.any way back to the other threads to indulge in my love of pleasure, because I am a guy and a booted woman floats my boat.

Welcome aboard, and always willing to lend an ear.

BB