Arousal wearing equestrian show attire, especially tall show boots.

Hi, I just registered for this forum. I registered at the Jodhpur-fetish form a month ago. I have been a frequent visitor (never posted) of both forums for quite some time. My name is JJBoots, and I am straight male.

For the longest time I have been aroused about wearing tall show boots (dressage/dress/field) over tight breeches, especially white ones.

When I was young I envisioned myself wearing this attire and feeling guilty. I thought this attire was unmanly.

The first time I tried on tall boots at a tack shop, I was really aroused. As soon as I pulled on the tight white breeches, I was so erect. I do not remember having such a sudden and straight up erection. The woman who helped me with the boots was an attractive brunette. I tried on black Konigs field boots that day. She laced up the boot laces while I was wearing them. After she finished lacing up and tying the boot laces, I tried on a black dressage coat. I walked around the store and felt so majestic. I thought that I was amazing-looking and any women who saw me thought the same.

I never got into riding. I always got busy with work, and I deemed it too feminine an activity. Riding is almost exclusively female in America.

Periodically I go to tack shops to try on tall boots. The salespeople are almost always female. I get aroused trying on the full ensemble. Another arousing thing is when a woman helps me by removing the boots while I am wearing them. Sometimes they struggle and my body is temporarily suspended in the air when they are trying to pull them off (boots with zippers eliminated this needed assistance and the need for boot jacks). Another arousing thing is when a woman pulls off one boot while your other booted foot presses against her rear end cheek. She then does the same thing with the other boot while your now unbooted foot pushes against her rear end cheek. I would love to do this for a woman. I once saw a rich brunette customer at a tack shop try on Konigs dressage boots. I offered to help her remove them. The saleslady refused and said that she would feel guilty about someone else (a customer) doing this for the customer, whom the saleslady knew.

I do not think women, especially the younger ones, found me attractive when I tried on full attire. I think some of them laughed at me behind my back. I did not care and I felt so aroused. Personally I believe that women are not turned on by physical images or pictures. I always masturbate later on after I have tried on equestrian attire. Sometimes I fantasize about wearing this attire during my imagination when I masturbate. ... I think I have been perceived as gay for trying on equestrian attire at a tack shop and/or for actually walking into an English tack shop.

In hindsight, and I wish I was aware of it, I wish I took up English riding in college. The participants are almost all female. I could see them in boots and breeches and riding coats, and vice versa. I could help them remove their boots or clean them at shows wile they are wearing them. They can do the same for me. They hopefully would accept me, assuming participation was not limited to females only. They might commend and praise a guy for being mentally brave and crashing a woman's activity or world. College women are mature and tolerant, unlike teenagers in middle school and high school. In this situation wearing skimpy underwear would be a must because I would want to minimize the obviousness of my erection.

Welcome to the site jjboots
I know how you feel, tight boots and jods turn me on, love wearing them and seeing others as well. Prefer white jods, but as long as they are tight

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Why not buy the boots so that you'll become regular customer?

Worth while treating yourself
I have a few pairs to keep me going

The problem is that I do not ride. Too busy with work and fear of being perceived as effeminate.

I do not want to own any equestrian apparel and tall boots. I fantasize about wearing them, and every once in a while I have the urge to wear this ensemble. I do not want a reminder of this fetish in my closet or anywhere in my house. I have yet to tell any woman that I have been involved with about this fetish. I also do not have the courage to ask them to wear this attire to gratify me.

I would love it if my girlfriend made me wear a dressage outfit and acted as her butler. It would also be cool if she hosted an all-female party and made me wear this attire and serve the guests. In case women are aroused by physical appearance, they could fondle my ass and/or crotch.

If this ever happens, and you think you might not be able to manage on your own, let me know, would love to help out at that kind of party